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Most often, there is a shuffling of partners that continues to move rather rapidly as one relationship ends, and another begins…always with play as the central focal point to who they are as a couple. As a woman in recovery, involved in yet another community…way of living life…I see similar dysfunctions within that group, as well. We are, largely, a throw away society, one that wants what it wants when it wants it…immediate gratification. We have little sense of commitment…long-term. Leave it. Not usually. It also points to an inability to accept personal responsibility, and be accountable for self.

It could be as simple as…it just turns them on, or as complex as a nurtured nature that is more dominant, or submissive, and finds great joy in serving from either perspective. Why are you…just you? How can there be an exchange when so much of any one part of that dynamic is so stifled?

How can there be true intimacy when so much of ourselves, and lives are left out of the communication of who we are?

No apologies necessary. I like you. I was looking inside myself at eighteen, because at eighteen I knew I was wired different than most people around me. The real questions refuse to be placated. Hell, half the time we forget our protocols such as we have are even there. Yes, exactly. This is where I put my dick in, right? In BDSM there is no default, there is explicit discussion and agreement prior to activity. Certainly, you describe no dynamics, behaviors, or dysfunctions that are absent from the vanilla world! I include my own in that, as my wife and I will celebrate 10 years together in June.

Thanks for your response, as well. Excellent points, and I appreciate your sharing personal experience for clarification, also. I would like to clarify one point.

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I did say the following in my previous post, but would like to repost that part as it may have been lost in my long-winded narrative. Just trying to keep a somewhat complex issue a tad simpler. I am a curious sort, and ask rather pointed questions. I am, ultimately, a sensualist…and for me? On the other hand? There are many practicioners who do need therapy, but not because they choose to act within this framework. That they have serious, unresolved issues that need addressing…period…is the issue.

Not bdsm. Once again, I apologize for not making that distinction. I see that as more of a stifling imbalance, than an exchange.

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Again, thank you. But I come back. I did see that bit, and I apologize for not responding to it. At any rate, more of a thoroughgoing patriarchy- and society-blamer than I am now.


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Society is all broken, and I know how, and I know why, and if everyone just listened to my theories, that would fix it! At the time, I thought she was being really stupid. The thought that patriarchy might have something to do with that is particularly odd to me, as I felt really ashamed as a girl for not wanting Prince Charming to sweep me off and masterfully woo me.

I spent long nights of my adolescence praying to not be backwards any more. Your reasons for leaving make sense to me. Hell, I met Monkey there a year ago, at some silly demo. I just thought he seemed like fun, and I wanted less seriousness and more fun in my life.

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Yes, I agree. I dated someone once who was poly, despite at the time feeling very firmly that I should not do so, and… well. Ugly, ugly kaboom.

Wow, Nine! The results are definitely not surprising though they are triggering.

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I have a question. Was it in any way emotionally difficult for you to carry out this research? Just wondered…. I love your new series. Nine, now that I have commented, I would like, please, to make it crystal clear that I am not interested in having any conversation with any BDSM-apologists in case any of them tries to engage in one with me in this thread. Just making it clear. However, I said it in the specific context of saying that explicitly negotiated activities in the context of free and informed consent have the consequence of liberating people from patriarchal norms.

Since much of the culture of BDSM is built around the concepts of explicit negotiation and informed consent, then to the extent that these hold true, then BDSM can be seen as being one possible relationship form in a feminist world, and that by promoting those values, BDSM culture can help to promote feminist ideals of equality of the sexes.

Reenactments of this kind would be viewed, rightly, as abominations, no matter how ritualized. Not all of it is aimed at women.

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Off the top of my head, I can think of people I know personally who play with issues around race, homophobia, antisemitism, classism, religion, ageism, fatphobia, lookism, and ableism. They do so from the perspectives of both oppressor and oppressed along those axes as the individual case may be.

Any kind of escapism necessarily makes sex more like acting, less authentic if you will, unless you consider heterosexual sex a mere act of penis in vagina with no real emotions involved. As a pagan, I have no problem with people playing the trappings of religious oppression in their BDSM.

I have observed people who struggle with these issues find ways to control that struggle rather than let that struggle control them through such play. So happy to see this series, Nine. This woman-hating stuff needs to be exposed. Eagerly awaiting the rest.

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For me, personally, ordinary vanilla sex would be fake. To me, it was always much more natural that I would be spanking her bottom. For me, BDSM is natural expression, that comes from being open and honest with my partner. What SD said. Which is one of the reasons that objecting to BDSM on the grounds that it resembles heteronormative sexual scripts is just odd to me.

People who wanted kids, probably. Well yeah, duh. ALL of us act out power bullshit, in some ways. The difference is, for me at least, that I try to be aware of it and work to change it. I just think the quest to purge that out of your sex life makes no sense.

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